Man Lā Yaḥḍuruh al-Faqīh

4646 - وَ سَأَلَ اَلْعَلاَءُ بْنُ رَزِينٍ أَبَا عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ : عَنْ جُمْهُورِ اَلنَّاسِ فَقَالَ "هُمُ اَلْيَوْمَ أَهْلُ هُدْنَةٍ تُرَدُّ ضَالَّتُهُمْ وَ تُؤَدَّى أَمَانَتُهُمْ وَ تُحْقَنُ دِمَاؤُهُمْ وَ تَجُوزُ مُنَاكَحَتُهُمْ وَ مُوَارَثَتُهُمْ فِي هَذَا اَلْحَالِ".

Hadith.4646 - Al-Alaa ibn Razin asked Abu Abdullah (as) about the the general masses (Jumhur al-Nas). Imam (as) said: "They are today considered people of truce. Their lost property is to be returned to them, their trusts are to be fulfilled, their blood is to be protected, and marriage with them and inheritance from them is permissible in this state."

4647 - وَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اَللَّهِ صَلَّى اَللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَ آلِهِ : "مِنْ سَعَادَةِ اَلرَّجُلِ أَنْ لاَ تَحِيضَ اِبْنَتُهُ فِي بَيْتِهِ".

Hadith.4647 - The Messenger of Allah (swt) (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) said: "Part of a man's happiness is that his daughter does not experience menstruation in his house."

4648 - وَ رَوَى اِبْنُ أَبِي عُمَيْرٍ عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ عِمْرَانَ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ قَالَ: "اَلشَّجَاعَةُ فِي أَهْلِ خُرَاسَانَ وَ اَلْبَاهُ فِي أَهْلِ بَرْبَرَ وَ اَلسَّخَاءُ وَ اَلْحَسَدُ فِي اَلْعَرَبِ فَتَخَيَّرُوا لِنُطَفِكُمْ".

Hadith.4648 - Ibn Abi Umair narrated from Yahya ibn Imran from Abu Abdullah (as) who said: "Bravery is found among the people of Khurasan, physical vigor among the people of Barbar, and generosity and envy among the Arabs. Therefore, choose carefully where you place your seed."

4649 - وَ فِي رِوَايَةِ إِسْمَاعِيلَ بْنِ أَبِي زِيَادٍ عَنْ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ قَالَ قَالَ عَلِيٌّ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ : "مَا كَثُرَ شَعْرُ رَجُلٍ قَطُّ إِلاَّ قَلَّتْ شَهْوَتُهُ".

Hadith.4649 - In the narration of Isma'il ibn Abi Ziyad from Imam Jafar ibn Muhammad Al-Sadiq (as) from his father, Imam Muhammad ibn Ali Al-Baqir (as), it is reported that Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib (as) said: "No man has ever had an abundance of hair without his desire becoming less."

4650 - وَ رَوَى إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ هَاشِمٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اَلْعَزِيزِ بْنِ اَلْمُهْتَدِي قَالَ: سَأَلْتُ اَلرِّضَا عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ فَقُلْتُ لَهُ جُعِلْتُ فِدَاكَ إِنَّ أَخِي مَاتَ وَ تَزَوَّجْتُ اِمْرَأَتَهُ فَجَاءَ عَمِّي وَ اِدَّعَى أَنَّهُ كَانَ تَزَوَّجَهَا سِرّاً فَسَأَلْتُهَا عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَأَنْكَرَتْ أَشَدَّ اَلْإِنْكَارِ وَ قَالَتْ مَا كَانَ بَيْنِي وَ بَيْنَهُ شَيْءٌ قَطُّ فَقَالَ "يَلْزَمُكَ إِقْرَارُهَا وَ يَلْزَمُهُ إِنْكَارُهَا".

Hadith.4650 - Ibrahim ibn Hashim narrated from Abdul Aziz ibn al-Muhtadi who said: I asked Imam Ali ibn Musa Ar-Ridha (as): "May I be sacrificed for you! My brother passed away, and I married his wife. Then my uncle came and claimed that he had secretly married her. I asked her about this, and she strongly denied it, saying, 'There was never anything between me and him at all.'" Imam (as) replied: "Her acknowledgment is binding upon you, and her denial is binding upon him."

4651 - وَ رَوَى صَالِحُ بْنُ عُقْبَةَ عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ صَالِحٍ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ قَالَ: سُئِلَ عَنْ رَجُلٍ يَنْكِحُ جَارِيَةَ اِمْرَأَتِهِ ثُمَّ يَسْأَلُهَا أَنْ تَجْعَلَهُ فِي حِلٍّ فَتَأْبَى فَيَقُولُ إِذاً لَأُطَلِّقَنَّكِ وَ يَجْتَنِبُ فِرَاشَهَا فَتَجْعَلُهُ فِي حِلٍّ قَالَ "هَذَا غَاصِبٌ فَأَيْنَ هُوَ عَنِ اَللُّطْفِ".

Hadith.4651 - Salih ibn Uqbah narrated from Sulayman ibn Salih from Abu Abdullah (as) who was asked about a man who engages in intercourse with his wife's bondwoman and then asks his wife to pardon him, but she refuses. He then says: "If you do not pardon me, I will divorce you," and he avoids her bed until she pardons him. Imam (as) said: "This man is an oppressor. Where is his kindness?"

4652 - وَ رَوَى أَبُو اَلْعَبَّاسِ وَ عُبَيْدٌ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ اَللَّهِ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ : فِي اِمْرَأَةٍ كَانَ لَهَا زَوْجٌ مَمْلُوكٌ فَوَرِثَتْهُ وَ أَعْتَقَتْهُ هَلْ يَكُونَانِ عَلَى نِكَاحِهِمَا قَالَ "لاَ وَ لَكِنْ يُجَدِّدَانِ نِكَاحاً آخَرَ".

Hadith.4652 - Abu al-Abbas and Ubayd narrated from Abu Abdullah (as) regarding a woman who had a slave husband, then inherited him and freed him. They asked if they would remain in their marriage. Imam (as) said: "No, but they must renew their marriage contract."

4653 - وَ قَالَ عَلِيٌّ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ : "يُسْتَحَبُّ لِلرَّجُلِ أَنْ يَأْتِيَ أَهْلَهُ أَوَّلَ لَيْلَةٍ مِنْ شَهْرِ رَمَضَانَ لِقَوْلِ اَللَّهِ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ: ۝ أُحِلَّ لَكُمْ لَيْلَةَ اَلصِّيٰامِ اَلرَّفَثُ إِلىٰ نِسٰائِكُمْ ۝ وَ اَلرَّفَثُ اَلْمُجَامَعَةُ".

Hadith.4653 - Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib (as) said: "It is recommended for a man to approach his wife on the first night of the month of Ramadan because of the saying of Allah (swt), the Mighty and Majestic: 'It has been made lawful for you to be intimate with your wives during the nights of fasting' (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:187), and al-rafath means sexual intercourse."

4654 - وَ رَوَى حَرِيزٌ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاقَ قَالَ قَالَ أَبُو جَعْفَرٍ عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ : "أَ تَدْرِي مِنْ أَيْنَ صَارَ مُهُورُ اَلنِّسَاءِ أَرْبَعَةَ آلاَفِ دِرْهَمٍ" قُلْتُ لاَ قَالَ "إِنَّ أُمَّ حَبِيبَةَ بِنْتَ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ كَانَتْ فِي اَلْحَبَشَةِ فَخَطَبَهَا اَلنَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اَللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَ آلِهِ فَسَاقَ عَنْهُ اَلنَّجَاشِيُّ أَرْبَعَةَ آلاَفِ دِرْهَمٍ فَمِنْ ثَمَّ هَؤُلاَءِ يَأْخُذُونَ بِهِ فَأَمَّا اَلْأَصْلُ فَاثْنَتَا عَشْرَةَ أُوقِيَّةً وَ نَشٌّ".

Hadith.4654 - Hariz narrated from Muhammad ibn Ishaq who said: Abu Ja'far Imam Muhammad ibn Ali Al-Baqir (as) said: "Do you know why the dowries of women became four thousand dirhams?" I said: "No." Imam (as) said: "Indeed, Umm Habibah, the daughter of Abu Sufyan, was in Abyssinia when the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) proposed to her. The Negus (the king of Abyssinia) gave four thousand dirhams on his behalf as her dowry. Since then, people have followed this practice. However, the original dowry was twelve uqiyyah and a nash."

4655 - وَ فِي رِوَايَةِ اَلسَّكُونِيِّ : أَنَّ عَلِيّاً عَلَيْهِ اَلسَّلاَمُ مَرَّ عَلَى بَهِيمَةٍ وَ فَحْلٍ يَسْفَدُهَا عَلَى ظَهْرِ اَلطَّرِيقِ فَأَعْرَضَ عَنْهُ بِوَجْهِهِ فَقِيلَ لَهُ لِمَ فَعَلْتَ ذَلِكَ يَا أَمِيرَ اَلْمُؤْمِنِينَ فَقَالَ "إِنَّهُ لاَ يَنْبَغِي أَنْ تَصْنَعُوا مَا يَصْنَعُونَ وَ هُوَ مِنَ اَلْمُنْكَرِ إِلاَّ أَنْ تُوَارُوهُ حَيْثُ لاَ يَرَاهُ رَجُلٌ وَ لاَ اِمْرَأَةٌ".

Hadith.4655 - In the narration of Al-Sakooni, it is reported that Imam Ali ibn Abi Talib (as) passed by an animal and a stud mating in the middle of the road, and Imam (as) turned his face away. It was said to him: "Why did you do that, O Commander of the Faithful (as)?" Imam (as) replied: "It is not appropriate for you to do what they do (i.e., allow such things publicly). It is among the unacceptable acts unless you conceal it where no man or woman can see it."